tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.comments2023-02-20T06:24:21.339-05:00Straight Up! NewsletterReneehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10043317958157768565noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-54058786867855269362018-03-13T11:31:21.290-04:002018-03-13T11:31:21.290-04:00Chelsea J.
I'm always encouraged to hear abou...Chelsea J.<br /><br />I'm always encouraged to hear about other believers testimonies of denouncing their letters. I am a former member of ZPB as well and crossed in Fall "14. Even before the hazing started I knew this was not of God but continued anyway since I didn't know God. So many of us lack the knowledge of the true King but he is faithful to bring us in relationship and deliver us from whatever we bonded to, to fill the void in our lives. Many of our reasons for joining organizations when honestly examining yourself is rooted in a identity. Not knowing whose you are and who you and yearning for a sense of belonging. Once I denounced my letters God showed me the purpose of family and love through his kingdom with fellowship between his sons and daughters. Once you experience the real you never want a false representation again its no comparison. You can serve without being in a secret society. A lot of this is generationally rooted. As the earlier sister stated with the historical sin of Freemasonry. God removes the veil of deception from our eyes when we begin to trust his love and perfect will for us. Its a glory to glory process and having conversation s with others experiencing the same things helpsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-13484846587253401102015-10-15T15:14:16.511-04:002015-10-15T15:14:16.511-04:00Greetings T.D.G.,
What an awesome God we serve! I...Greetings T.D.G.,<br /><br />What an awesome God we serve! It does my heart good to know that so many are recognizing the darkness of being associated with Greek Lettered Organizations. I applaud you for your strength and courage! That's a big step and I thank God that you made it. <br /><br />Thank God! And I hope your testimony encourages others as well.Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10043317958157768565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-57211827169504125272015-10-13T03:17:19.629-04:002015-10-13T03:17:19.629-04:00Hello All!! Thank you for sharing this. I also joi...Hello All!! Thank you for sharing this. I also joined a divine 9 sorority during undergrad. When I graduated in 2006 and returned to my home church; God really began to deal with me but had yet to reveal why I could not serve the true and living God and be in a sorority. As the years went by, I became inactive; tossed out all things that represented the sorority and for a period of time that was "good enough". It was my way of saying I'm not apart of the organization anymore; but technically everyone still knew me as a Greek. This year, literally a few weeks ago, I and a few other "sisters" decided to attend homecoming. I was thrilled to see the other women but wasn't too excited about the organization. Again, God began to deal with me about the organization to a greater degree. Late one evening I asked God what is it about the organization and did I really have to give it up. Like you, I wanted to know why; not that I was questioning God but I just wanted to understand and not just do so because I've grown out of it. He began to show me things about the symbols, the songs, the rituals.....I was so ashamed and could not believe that all these years I technically worshipped an idol and did not realize it. I cried out to God asking what I needed to do to get right; and the Holy Spirit told me I had to officially denounce the organization and announce it to others. I immediately thought of the backlash but realized it doesn't matter what they think; I must obey God. This past Sunday, October 11th, I informed the women that I "crossed" with; and I'm really seeking God on how to tell others from the chapter. I also realize that I'll need to write a letter to the organization; my concern is I really don't want to use my address when I send it. I don't think anything will happen but I think I'm more comfortable with an email to the organization instead of a letter with my return address. I don't know why but for some reason I just don't want my current address in their files.<br /><br />Anyway, its will be 13 years next month since becoming a member and I'm officially doing right by God and denouncing this organization. Although I slowly stop associating I was still seen as a member of Zeta Phi Beta but I'm in the process of removing myself completely. I'm grateful that God has shown me this and thank you for sharing your story.<br /><br />T.D.GAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-84695708899264346392015-08-03T22:44:19.383-04:002015-08-03T22:44:19.383-04:00Greetings Evelyn!
To God be the glory for you:-)...Greetings Evelyn! <br /><br />To God be the glory for you:-) Let me first apologize for not responding sooner. I'm just now seeing this message tonight. Also, I want you to know that it is so encouraging to see others reverence God such as yourself. I am so happy that you decided to take that important, liberating step to denounce that sorority. God is with you. He will never leave nor forsake you. I'm glad that you shared with others as it can encourage them to consider giving their whole life to God instead of just portions of it. I know that it takes courage and I'm so glad that you stood on faith and the strength of our Lord.<br /><br />In the meantime, feel free to email me at renee@reneeallenmccoy.com I'll provide you with a complimentary copy of Soul Ties: Breaking Up with a Past That's Killing Your Future where you can read other testimonies. <br /><br />I pray His best for you. Take Care...Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10043317958157768565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-11211546093881395602015-08-03T00:30:31.641-04:002015-08-03T00:30:31.641-04:00Evelyn - To answer your question, it is not requir...Evelyn - To answer your question, it is not required. However, NECESSARY to make a declaration of your denouncement to the national HQ. It's part of proclaiming that you belong the the Most High and you've entered the process of divorcing your organization - because when you went through your rituals it was essentially a marriage/ a vow. I did right a letter to nationals but I only told my closest former LS who also denounced later. Anyone else who asked (because I knew so many people) I tell them and use that opportunity to witness. MANY have come out and still coming out.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03632066089640072666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-3286308864844348672015-07-28T20:24:35.554-04:002015-07-28T20:24:35.554-04:00I just revealed to my former line sisters, through...I just revealed to my former line sisters, through FB, that I denounced Zeta a few years ago, and it feels good. I honestly was concerned with what they would say or think and the truth of the matter was I was still on the fence, lukewarm, a little ashamed and again concerned with the opinions of others. I released a rejoicing sound after posting my position. I feel liberated. This is Truth. Either you're in or out. Hot or cold. God will spew you out if you are lukewarm. Yes. Today and forever more,until the Lord returns,I am continuing my growth in Christ and am so happy to have found what I was looking for on today regarding denouncing sororities. Blessings to you Renee.<br /><br />Evelyn TylerAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-48037751444299508582015-07-28T19:38:03.125-04:002015-07-28T19:38:03.125-04:00Wow! And Amen. Thanks ladies and gentleman for you...Wow! And Amen. Thanks ladies and gentleman for your testimonies. I too am a former Zeta who denounced a few years ago and this is actually my first time seeing and reading from other women who too have denounce the organization. Although I haven't told any of my line sisters or wrote to headquarters I have shared with close family members and friends. I also discarded everything Zeta some years ago, because of Christ. When asked if I am a part of any organization I'm honest and say I was, but denounced because of Christ. Some understand and some look at me with a "you're crazy look". I even have students asking me to write them letters of recommendations to join sororities and fraternities. My reply is no. Simply because I will not be held accountable especially when I know better. My question to you Renee or anyone who wants to respond. Do I need to write to National or to my former line sisters letting them no I denounced Zeta. Here's the thing after we pledged in 2000 I never hung around my line sisters. Not because I didn't like them or anything, but simply because I didn't care to party or do whatever. So I immediately was titled M.I.A. So currently to them I am still M.I.A. while sold out for Jesus. Realizing the very truth of the matter...I do need to tell them and be ready for whatever. Blessings to you ladies and much love. <br /><br />EvelynAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-49588142969215735652015-03-09T16:44:45.514-04:002015-03-09T16:44:45.514-04:00Hi Letha, I am so glad that you aren't going t...Hi Letha, I am so glad that you aren't going to join. God leads and guides those who want to be led and guided. He did it for me and I'm so glad that He is doing it for you! What a mighty and awesome God we serve!<br />And this applies in all areas of your life. As long as you truly put God first in your life, you'll succeed. Not to say that you won't have learning curves, but God is with you because He promises to never leave us nor forsake us.Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10043317958157768565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-34228800885937687622015-03-09T10:30:15.711-04:002015-03-09T10:30:15.711-04:00Letha, I would encourage you to continue to do you...Letha, I would encourage you to continue to do your research. This is so you will not be swayed in the future. You can visit www.denouncegreek.webs.com and get started. God bless!Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03632066089640072666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-14643969434222927312015-03-09T08:21:21.172-04:002015-03-09T08:21:21.172-04:00I'm very thankful for this insight. I'm a ...I'm very thankful for this insight. I'm a freshman and I was planing on becoming a member in zeta phi beta. I'm glad that I know the true meaning of this and want look in partaking in such activitiesAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15976294029571351964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-25091061907362662832012-04-10T16:52:48.006-04:002012-04-10T16:52:48.006-04:00It is wonderful to know there are more people out ...It is wonderful to know there are more people out here that have denounced from Zeta Phi Beta Sorority as well! May God continue to bless you all as you grow cloder to Him, doing His kingdomo business. <br /><br />I blog as well! http://camille-clarity.blogspot.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-46096563927183448352011-03-29T14:27:14.417-04:002011-03-29T14:27:14.417-04:00May God continue to bless you, Belinda-Rose! You a...May God continue to bless you, Belinda-Rose! You are right, those who are not apart of the so-called "Divine 9" are not exempt, the principles are the same. This was a powerful statement you made, "The large majority will not understand, but you have to have your mind made up that you only live to please Him and not others." Amen!<br /><br />Whatever we do, we must do as unto the Lord. Please, feel free to contact me anytime. My email address is write1renee@yahoo.com or renee@reneeallenmccoy.com. I pray that God continues to strengthen you in your process. He will never leave us nor forsake us... continue to press forward.Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08492160567646523893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-41266456002352032862011-03-28T13:57:28.232-04:002011-03-28T13:57:28.232-04:00God Bless you all,
I am actually in the process o...God Bless you all,<br /><br />I am actually in the process of denouncing my sorority. It is not a part of the "Divine 9", but is still greek in action and rituals. I decided to denounce because of the things that are associated with the sorority. The lewd parties, hazing, and other environments were preventing me from going higher in Him. I pledged in Fall 05 and am an alumni of the sorority. The church I attended while in college has a pastor who is active in Phi Beta Sigma and so is his son, so unfortunately I compared myself to man rather than God. If my pastor is active and supports the service, why can't I do the same? HORRID MISTAKE!<br /><br />To address "anonymous" - you cannot as a Child of God walk with those who are unequally yoked. You cannot wear letters and profess His goodness and pay dues to things that are unrighteous or host parties because you may be fined if you don't attend or watch the line at a club. Even if you don't ever attend a "set" (hazing session) or ever grip/lock-up, or even attend a party, but you wear the letters of those who hosted the party, do you think people will truly take you seriously as a devout follower of Christ? To the average person who does not know you at all, yet sees your letters it reminds them of that crazy party the Zetas on their campus once hosted, the crazy hazing story their cousin once told them about Zeta, or even possibly one of your sorors that was swearing loudly in the library that one day, etc. You may say how am I suppose to be responsible for every member of the sorority?? Well you're not, but what you can do is govern yourselves for His name sake alone.<br /><br />Paul declares:<br />1 Corinthians 9:19: “For though I am free from all men, I have made myself a servant to all, that I might win the more; 20 and to the Jews I became as a Jew, that I might win Jews; to those who are under the law, as under the law, that I might win those who are under the law; 21 to those who are without law, as without law (not being without law toward God, but under law toward Christ), that I might win those who are without law; 22 to the weak I became as weak, that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all men, that I might by all means save some. 23 Now this I do for the gospel's sake, that I may be partaker of it with you.<br /><br /><br />In other words Christ is coming soon and we as His TRUE disciples must be about His business, leaving behind anything that would distract us from His daily will for our lives.<br /><br />As I said, I am still in the process and will never claim to have all the answers in life - but I thank God for His conviction and the joy and peace He has granted me because I am truly sold-out to Him and Him alone. The large majority will not understand, but you have to have your mind made up that you only live to please Him and not others. I beg you to read Matthew 24 (again if you have already for we as Christians sometimes become desensitized to scripture we've seen numerous times). It's real and we need to be ready and willing to walk that narrow road and forsake all others and things.<br /><br />Again, God bless you all and thank you to the authors and contributors of this blog for your openness!Belinda-Rosenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-87361677511320752672011-03-15T21:26:41.474-04:002011-03-15T21:26:41.474-04:00Very well said, Sis. Keya. There isn't much I ...Very well said, Sis. Keya. There isn't much I can add to your comment. We pretty much said it all in the article, but like you said, I too was at that point. After I read this comment, the words that rose up in my spirit was if only people would defend Christ (and Speak Up) as they do an organization, what a world this would be. <br /><br />It is my prayer that many will truly ask the Holy Spirit to be their guide. It also makes me rejoice because Jesus says I am blessed when others say all manners of evil against me for HIS name sake...not zeta's or any other organization.<br /><br />What we share is simply a warning that comes straight out of the Word of God. So, be careful because the argument you (Tamara--Anonymous) have is not with us, it is with God... may He minister to you as only He can. We just love you, that's all, we love you enough to tell you the truth.Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08492160567646523893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-52640209609108838072011-03-15T16:14:26.463-04:002011-03-15T16:14:26.463-04:00Dear Anonymous,
While I do not believe it was m...Dear Anonymous, <br /><br />While I do not believe it was mines or Sis. Renee's intent to paint a pictures that ALL members of zeta fell into a damned category, we could not ignore the call of God to COME OUT. You've decided to post saying your saved BUT you are defending zeta??? Choose ye this day whom you will serve. <br /><br />Now while the community service actions you are performing for the sorority may help someone out, we can't ignore that it's done in the name of zeta to get zeta's name out and to build your presence on a local, regional, and national level, and you are NOT witnessing to people in the community about salvation on zeta's time.<br /><br />The bottome line is Leviticus 5:1and 4 tell us NOT to swear an oath that is secret and Matt 5:33-35 tells us not to swear period. There are two reasons to kneel at an altar: to worshop God and to worship 'others'. What's being done during intake rituals? The Word says do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2COR 6:14). You are KNOWINGLY AVOWING yourself with unsaved individuals through that oath. <br /><br />Do you perform the handsign? That comes from masons and OES. Have you hazed? Or do you think because you're not the one oppressing pledgees you are unaccountable for what's being done? Oh your chapter doesn't pledge? Well guess what, zetas pledge worldwide. I was one of them in Europe 'representin' in a graduate chapter. Doesn't your oath avow you to zetas worldwide?? If this is of God show me ONE scripture.<br /><br />I could go on but will not; I felt the same way you did initially but it wasn't until my TRUE walk with God elevated, as it does on a cyclic basis, I heavily lost the desire to remain connected to zeta. AFTER denouncing I found there were many others like me. Oh yeah and the community service acts are HUMANISM (new age, watered down Christianity) not Christianity. Like many others, perhaps it is not your season to understand. But remember, you don't have to bow down to an image to worship it. "All of my love and peace and happiness, I'm gonna give to JESUS!" www.denouncegreek.webs.comKeyahttp://www.denouncegreek.webs.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-40439184934579662852011-03-15T15:27:40.043-04:002011-03-15T15:27:40.043-04:00Praise the Lord for your deliverence and for YOU s...Praise the Lord for your deliverence and for YOU strengthing your WALK with him<br /><br />I must say I write this as an active Member in the Sorority , as well as the daughter of a Pastor where I serve ONE GOD with fellow believers. <br /><br />I have been a member of my church since early early age. I serve the Lord and place nothing or noone before him, including Zeta.<br /><br />Zeta is an outlet for me and others to do a work of the lord through SERVICE. We feed the poor, we tutor the children, we work with the elderly, and we commune to life and serve our COMMUNITY..which is the FIRST ideal of the Sorority.<br /><br />I do not think it is of God or right to paint a picture that all members "worship" or "praise" their letter. This is insane to me and Im quite offended. <br /><br />All of my Sorors KNOW that I am a child of the MOST HIGH. They respect who I am EVERY day of the week. We LOVE , as commanded in II Corinth 13th and we KNOW it is much more than a social outlet to those that use it that way.<br /><br />Anyone neglecting their walk has to ACCEPT responsibility and examine theirselves. As Christians, we neednt place blame on an entity or org..cause that is US.<br /><br />I pay my tithes and I pay my dues. <br /><br />God First, Family Second and then any extracurriculum activities that allows me to SERVE in him<br /><br /><br />I will not speak badly of anyone that makes a decision to denounce. However, I will also not allow someone to ASSUME and blanket the entire membership in a negative way.<br /><br />I am a proud Child of the King and member of Zeta<br />Yours in Christ<br /><br />TamaraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-44615807688249310272010-06-02T14:46:46.772-04:002010-06-02T14:46:46.772-04:00Thank you, Annie. I pray that it will indeed touch...Thank you, Annie. I pray that it will indeed touch hearts.Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10043317958157768565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-14815654973467008452010-06-02T13:38:37.565-04:002010-06-02T13:38:37.565-04:00This is an swesome article. Thanks for taking the...This is an swesome article. Thanks for taking the time to share what God had laid on your heart to do. May this article be a blessing to all who read this article.Annie R. Esskridgenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-27828062003926424912010-04-23T06:46:49.245-04:002010-04-23T06:46:49.245-04:00Tiffini!!
Glory, to Glory, to Glory, to Glory to ...Tiffini!!<br /><br />Glory, to Glory, to Glory, to Glory to God. Oh give thanks unto the Lord for he is GOD. Congratulations on your release from bondage and allowing the Lord to remove the scale off your eyes. Feel free to stop by the website and I will pray that the Lord will continue to strengthen your understanding completely. God bless.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03632066089640072666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-76083227938837310912010-04-19T23:41:57.307-04:002010-04-19T23:41:57.307-04:00Thanks for your comment, Tiffni. God is so good an...Thanks for your comment, Tiffni. God is so good and I thank Him for your deliverance and pray that He strengthens you on your journey.Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10043317958157768565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-77578431662211359832010-04-18T23:17:06.497-04:002010-04-18T23:17:06.497-04:00This article has been such a blessing to me. I am ...This article has been such a blessing to me. I am in the process of formally renouncing my letters (Z Phi B) and it has been hard. I love the women I have met through Zeta, but I value my relationship with God more. It is encouraging to see that others have heeded God's call to separate themselves from this particular form of ungodliness. Please keep me in your prayers and I will do the same. The devil is being exposed and he is MAD. We need to intercede for one another; praying for strength to fight this spiritual battle.Tiffninoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-73251510543271013312010-04-05T17:52:16.051-04:002010-04-05T17:52:16.051-04:00Thank you so much, Gina. God has delivered me and ...Thank you so much, Gina. God has delivered me and I pray for others as well. He loves us so much to sacrifice...we should be willing to do the same by living completely for Him.Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10043317958157768565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-32141451690917526542010-04-04T22:35:30.351-04:002010-04-04T22:35:30.351-04:00This is a great work you all have commenced in den...This is a great work you all have commenced in denouncing Greek. I pray that others who are contemplating joining a secret society will have a wake up call from these great testimonies of the mighty hands of God.<br />GinaGinanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-76368591661171146512010-02-05T20:38:25.201-05:002010-02-05T20:38:25.201-05:00Thank you so much, Annie. Please consider joining ...Thank you so much, Annie. Please consider joining the mailing group. Use the Yahoo link off to the side. I post here on this site at least once per month...Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10043317958157768565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1964214292786906193.post-23342429500363724622010-02-05T16:43:33.839-05:002010-02-05T16:43:33.839-05:00Renee this is awesome. You have truly did an outs...Renee this is awesome. You have truly did an outstanding job with this article. AnnieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com